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I have over experience as a baseball coach, working across rec leagues, travel baseball, travel softball and high school programs. I’ve coached players ranging in age from 4 to 20, including those in our college-age travel teams. My own baseball journey began at age 7 and eventually ended on a Division 1 College Baseball team. In addition to my sports coaching background, I have over than 20 years of experience in the corporate world of leadership development. Over time, I’ve come to recognize that many of the lessons learned on the baseball or softball field translate directly to the broader world of leadership development and people management. I’ve been fortunate to learn from many outstanding baseball coaches and corporate leaders along the way.

  • If You Don’t Define Success, Someone Else Will

    To paraphrase Lewis Carroll, “If you don’t know where you’re going, any road can get you there.”

    It’s a simple idea, but an important one in both youth sports and leadership.

    Goals tell us where we want to go. Clear expectations help us understand how to get there.

    As coaches, we often have goals for our teams. We want to win a tournament. Compete for a championship. Finish near the top of the league. We design practices, run drills, and spend hours working on skills that we hope will move us toward those goals.

    But sometimes we forget an important step:

    Have we clearly explained what needs to happen to get there?

    If our goal is to become a better defensive team, have we set the expectation that every player backs up every throw? That players communicate before the pitch? That everyone knows where the ball should go before it is hit?

    Those may seem like little things, but those little things become the road that leads toward the bigger goal.

    The same is true for individual players.

    Many of the young athletes I work with tell me they want to play college baseball or softball someday. That’s a great goal. But simply wanting to play at the next level doesn’t create a clear  path to get there.

    Do they understand what will be expected of them?

    They may need to get stronger. Throw harder. Improve their speed. Become more consistent defensively. Learn the game at a deeper level. Develop better practice habits.

    A coach’s job isn’t just to tell players where they should go. It’s to help them understand the road that can get them there.

    The same principle applies to leadership.

    Too often, we give an employee a new role, project, or responsibility and expect them to perform at a high level immediately. Then, when the result isn’t what we expected, we become frustrated.

    But we need to ask ourselves a different question:

    Did we ever clearly explain what success looked like?

    Did we define the outcome? Did we explain what great or even good performance looks like along the way? Did we establish the behaviors, milestones, and standards that would tell them they were headed in the right direction?

    Without clear expectations, people will still choose a road. They’ll make decisions based on what they think you want them to do.

    And we shouldn’t be surprised when that road takes them somewhere completely different.

    Whether you’re coaching a 12-year-old ball player or leading an experienced employee, setting a goal isn’t enough.

    Show them the destination. Then make sure they understand the road that leads there.

    That’s coaching.

  • Know when to break the rules

    A few months ago, I attended a baseball and softball coaching conference. During one of the sessions, the presenter was talking about the evolution of catching, and teaching hitters when he paused and said something that has stuck with me ever since:

    “Just remember, there are no always and never’s in baseball.”

    The more I thought about it, the more I realized that statement applies just as much to leadership as it does to sports.

    As coaches, we love absolutes. We tell players to always get in front of a ground ball. Always catch a fly ball with one hand. Never swing at the first pitch. These phrases are easy to remember, easy to teach, and often rooted in good fundamentals.

    The problem is they aren’t always right.

    If you’re charging a slow roller, trying to get directly in front of the ball may actually increase the chance of a bad hop or bobble. If you’re sprinting after a fly ball, insisting on catching it with one hand may be more difficult than securing it with two. And while waiting for a good pitch is usually smart, sometimes the first pitch is the best one you’ll see all at-bat. Letting it go because of an “always” rule can cost you.

    Great players learn the fundamentals. Elite players learn when to adapt them.

    Leadership is no different.

    Business is full of advice that sounds absolute. Always celebrate accomplishments publicly. Never criticize an employee in front of others. Never micromanage. Data doesn’t lie.

    There’s wisdom in each of those statements, but none of them should be treated as universal laws.

    Some employees thrive when recognized in front of their peers. Others would rather disappear into the background. Public recognition that motivates one person may embarrass another.

    We’ve all heard that public criticism is bad leadership, and in most situations, it is. But imagine a serious safety violation that puts others at immediate risk. Addressing it in the moment—professionally, respectfully, and with the goal of protecting the team—may be exactly what’s needed.

    Even micromanagement, one of leadership’s biggest taboos, has its place. A brand-new employee learning a critical process or someone struggling in a high-risk role may need much more direction and oversight than a seasoned, high-performing team member.

    The lesson isn’t that the common advice is wrong. Often it is good advice.

    The lesson is that leadership, like baseball, is about judgment.

    The best coaches don’t simply teach rules. They teach players how to recognize the situation in front of them. The best leaders do the same. They understand principles, but they also know when the situation calls for flexibility.

    So be careful with the “always” and “never” statements. They make great teaching tools, but they rarely tell the whole story.

    Because in baseball—and in leadership—the best decisions are almost always situational.

  • Trust the Process, Not Just the Results

    One of the hardest things about baseball and softball is that the results are obvious, but the process that created those results is often invisible.

    A hitter can flare a weak pop-up that drops between two fielders or hit a slow ground ball that finds a hole. The swing wasn’t particularly good, yet the box score records a hit. As the old baseball saying goes, “It looks like a line drive in the box score.”

    The opposite is just as true.

    A player can barrel a baseball perfectly, only to hit it directly at an outfielder or watch an infielder make a spectacular play. The process was excellent, but the result wasn’t. That’s one of the realities of the game: the outcome doesn’t always reflect the quality of the decision or execution.

    The same principle applies to coaches.

    A manager may decide to change pitchers because every piece of information suggests it’s the right move. Sometimes that pitcher gives up the game-winning hit. That doesn’t automatically make the decision wrong. Good decisions can produce poor outcomes, just as poor decisions can occasionally produce good ones.

    That’s why great coaches learn to reward the process, not just the result.

    When one of my players hits a ball hard but is retired, I don’t want them hanging their head. Instead, I want them to understand that they did their job. More often than not, consistently making quality swings will produce positive results over time.

    When a hitter comes back to the dugout after making an out, they often want to talk about their mechanics. One of the first questions I ask is, “Did you swing at a good pitch?”

    That question matters because pitch selection is something the hitter controls. Whether the ball falls safely for a hit is not. Focusing on controllable actions instead of uncontrollable outcomes helps players develop confidence, consistency, and resilience.

    Leadership works exactly the same way.

    Leaders are judged by results, but sustainable success comes from building strong processes. A salesperson may identify the right prospects, prepare thoroughly, ask thoughtful questions, and use the CRM exactly as expected. Despite doing everything right, the customer may still choose a competitor. That doesn’t mean the salesperson failed. It means the process was sound, even if the outcome wasn’t.

    Great leaders recognize effort, preparation, decision-making, and execution—not just the final score. When organizations only reward results, they unintentionally encourage shortcuts and luck. When they recognize great processes, they create habits that lead to consistent success over time.

    Whether you’re coaching a baseball team or leading an organization, remember this: you can’t always control the outcome, but you can always control the quality of yce great results.

  • More Than Talent: The Power of Relationships

    One of the greatest predictors of success for any baseball or softball team isn’t talent alone—it’s the quality of the relationships within the team. Teams with strong, healthy relationships consistently communicate better, trust each other more, overcome adversity more effectively, and ultimately perform at a higher level. The same principle applies in the workplace.

    Within every baseball or softball team, there are several important relationships that deserve attention. The first, and perhaps the most obvious, is the relationship among teammates. Teammates don’t have to be best friends, but they do need to genuinely respect and trust one another. That mutual respect creates an environment where players encourage each other, hold each other accountable, and are willing to sacrifice for the good of the team. Over time, many of these relationships naturally develop into lifelong friendships, but those friendships are a byproduct of a culture built on respect. The stronger the trust between teammates, the stronger the team becomes.

    The second critical relationship is between the player and the coach. This relationship often has an even greater impact on an individual’s growth. Players don’t have to agree with every coaching decision, nor do they have to view their coach as a close friend. What they do need is confidence that the coach genuinely cares about their development and is committed to helping them improve. Likewise, coaches must respect the effort, commitment, and individuality of each player. Without mutual respect, feedback is resisted, learning slows, and development suffers—for both the individual and the team.

    The final relationship that is often overlooked is between the player and the umpire. Baseball and softball are games played by imperfect people, and that includes officials. Players should always compete with passion, but they should also treat umpires with courtesy and respect, even when they disagree with a call. Learning to respond respectfully in moments of frustration builds maturity, character, and emotional control—qualities that extend far beyond the ballfield.

    The business world mirrors these same relationships. Coworkers are today’s teammates. Organizations thrive when colleagues trust one another, communicate openly, and work toward a common goal instead of individual recognition. Likewise, the relationship between an employee and their manager often determines engagement, development, and retention. Great leaders intentionally build trust by listening, coaching, recognizing contributions, and demonstrating genuine care for their people. Finally, every organization has its own version of the umpire—customers, partners, regulators, or others whose decisions may not always seem fair. Responding with professionalism rather than emotion is a hallmark of mature teams.

    Whether you’re coaching a ballclub or leading an organization, relationships are never built overnight. They require consistency, respect, communication, and trust. Invest in those relationships first, and you’ll create a team capable of achieving far more than talent alone ever could.

  • The Best Leaders Still Practice the Basics

    As youth players get older, coaching naturally changes. There is always something fun about watching a group of five- and six-year-olds chase a baseball around the field, but there are limits to what you can realistically expect them to do. At those young ages, and for several years after, coaches focus almost exclusively on the fundamentals.
    We teach players how to run the bases, throw, catch, and hit. We teach the basics.
    As players develop, we can introduce more advanced concepts—situational baseball, defensive alignments, pitch sequencing, game strategy, and countless other nuances of the game. In many ways, these advanced concepts make coaching more interesting and rewarding. However, none of them can be taught or mastered without first understanding the fundamentals.
    Visit a baseball or softball practice for players between the ages of seven and ten, and you’ll hear coaches constantly reminding players to “have a good catch” and “hit your partner in the chest.” Now watch a high school practice. Often, you’ll see coaches chatting among themselves while players warm up.
    Not the best coaches.
    The best coaches are still paying attention to the quality of the catch their players are having. They are still reinforcing proper throwing mechanics. They are still focused on the fundamentals.
    Why?
    Because great coaches understand that when fundamentals begin to slip, bigger problems are usually right behind them. When players stop making routine plays, executing basic skills, and paying attention to details, games are eventually lost—not because of advanced strategy, but because of neglected fundamentals.
    The same principle applies to leadership.
    The challenge, of course, is determining what leadership fundamentals actually are. Some may vary based on the organization, industry, or situation. However, I believe there are four leadership fundamentals that matter regardless of circumstances:
    Build trust
    Communicate expectations clearly
    Hold people accountable
    Develop your team
    These are the leadership equivalents of throwing, catching, and hitting.
    Too often, leaders become consumed with business results, financial metrics, strategic initiatives, and quarterly targets. While those outcomes matter, they are ultimately the result of leaders consistently executing the fundamentals.
    When leaders fail to build trust, communication breaks down. When expectations are unclear, performance suffers. When accountability disappears, standards decline. When employees are not developed, growth stalls.
    ust as championship teams are built on a foundation of fundamental skills, successful organizations are built on a foundation of fundamental leadership behaviors.
    The best leaders, like the best coaches, never outgrow the basics. They understand that fundamentals are not something you master once and move beyond. They are something you practice every day.
    Because in leadership, just as in baseball, the fundamentals win games.

  • The Leadership Power of Small Victories

    I’ve written before that the ultimate goal of most youth baseball and softball teams is to win a championship. It might be a league title, a tournament championship, a state championship, or someday even the College World Series or Major League Baseball’s World Series. In a previous post, I talked about the idea of “winning the small moments to win the big games.” The point was simple: championships are usually the result of hundreds of small victories accumulated over time.

    This time, I want to focus on a different benefit of those small victories. Beyond helping teams win games, celebrating them helps create players who are fully engaged and invested in the success of the team. As players get older, the game becomes more detailed. Coaches spend less time teaching fundamentals and more time focusing on execution. Moving a runner from second to third with less than two outs. A hitter driving a fly ball deep enough to score a run. A player taking an extra base because they were paying attention and running hard. None of these moments are likely to make the highlight reel, but they often have a tremendous impact on the outcome of the game. The challenge is that players naturally gravitate toward the things that receive attention.

    If the only things we celebrate are home runs, strikeouts, and game-winning hits, players begin to believe those are the only things that matter. As coaches, we have to be intentional about recognizing the smaller contributions that help teams succeed. When a player executes one of those “little things” correctly, acknowledge it. Give them a high-five when they get back to the dugout. Let the team hear you praise the effort. Mention it during your post-game talk. By doing so, you’re reinforcing the behaviors you want repeated. The impact goes beyond the individual player. The entire team starts to understand what success looks like. They learn that moving a runner, making the cutoff throw, advancing on a passed ball, or laying down a sacrifice bunt are valuable contributions. Over time, players begin taking pride in those actions because they know they are noticed and appreciated.

    The same principle applies in the workplace. As leaders, employee engagement is critical to both team performance and organizational success. One of the most effective ways to build engagement is through recognition. Too often, leaders focus exclusively on the big wins: exceeding quarterly sales goals, increasing profits, landing a major client, or achieving a key strategic objective. Those accomplishments deserve recognition, but they shouldn’t be the only things we celebrate. What about the employee who receives a thank-you note from a customer? The team member who stays late to help a coworker? The individual who identifies a process improvement that saves time for the team? These moments may not move the stock price, but they contribute to the culture and performance that eventually drive larger organizational results.


    When leaders consistently recognize these smaller victories, they send a powerful message: “I see you. I value your contribution. What you do matters. “That’s how engagement grows.
    One employee at a time.
    One player at a time.
    One small victory at a time.
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  • The Little Things Aren’t Little

    One of the biggest mistakes we make as coaches—especially as players get older—is assuming they’ve “mastered” the fundamentals. As youth players age and gain experience, we naturally spend less and less time reinforcing the basics. We move on to more advanced concepts, complex strategies, situational play, analytics, and game planning. Those things absolutely matter. But when the fundamentals begin to slip, everything else eventually starts to break down too.

    There’s a famous line in the movie Bull Durham where the manager tells his struggling team, “This is a very simple game. You throw the ball, you catch the ball, you hit the ball. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, sometimes it rains” While technically true, anyone who has coached the game knows there’s much more to it than that. There’s a right way to throw. A right way to catch. A right way to hit. The small details matter.

    When players are young, coaches spend countless hours teaching those movements. We work on footwork, glove angles, throwing mechanics, balance, timing, and repetition. But as players improve, coaches often shift their attention toward more complicated aspects of the game. In many ways, that’s more enjoyable for us as coaches. Advanced concepts feel more exciting. But it can also become dangerous if we stop reinforcing the basics that everything else is built upon.

    Years ago, I was an assistant coach at a local high school, and our head coach had what he called “everyday drills.” These were relatively simple drills that players performed every single practice—hence the name. On the surface, they looked basic. Some players probably thought they were repetitive or unnecessary. But over the course of a season, those drills made us a fundamentally stronger team.

    We fielded the ball better because the movements became automatic. We made fewer mental mistakes because the habits were ingrained. Players reacted correctly under pressure because they had repeated the fundamentals so many times that they no longer had to think about them.

    That’s the power of fundamentals. They create consistency.

    When teams lose sight of the basics and focus only on the “big things,” mistakes start to compound. Missed cutoff men. Poor footwork. Bad throws. Mental lapses. Games are rarely lost because of one massive mistake. More often, they’re lost because small breakdowns pile up over time.

    The same principle applies in leadership and business. Strong organizations are built on mastering the fundamentals. Communication. Accountability. Preparation. Follow-through. Customer service. Something as simple as how a team answers a customer phone call can shape the reputation of an entire company. If leaders fail to reinforce those basics consistently, small issues eventually turn into bigger problems.

    Whether in sports or leadership, success almost always comes back to mastering—and continuously reinforcing—the fundamentals.

  • Leadership Without Consistency Fails Fast

    One of the biggest mistakes we make as coaches, leaders, and managers is assuming trust automatically comes with the title. Too often, coaches believe young players will trust them simply because they are the “expert” or the adult in the room. The reality is, trust does not come with a whistle, a lineup card, or a job title. Trust is earned through consistency, fairness, and follow-through over time.

    If we want to build trust with players, parents, employees, or coworkers, we have to provide a consistent approach and, most importantly, do what we say we are going to do.

    In baseball and softball, players notice everything. If I tell a player he is going to play a certain position and then I change my mind without explanation, I might get away with that once. Maybe even twice. But eventually, that player stops believing me. Once that trust starts to disappear, everything becomes harder. Communication suffers. Buy-in disappears. Effort declines. The player may still show up physically, but mentally they begin checking out.

    The same thing applies to the little promises we make to a team. If I tell players we are going to work on baserunning every day, but we continually skip it, eventually the team starts questioning my integrity. Players begin wondering if anything I say actually matters. Trust is not built through speeches. It is built through repeated actions that align with your words.

    Building trust also goes beyond simply following through. It applies to how consistently and fairly we treat people.

    Fair does not always mean equal.

    One of the most important lessons young coaches and leaders must learn is that every situation is different, but the standards must remain consistent. If the team rule is that players run out every ground ball or the team runs sprints afterward, then that standard has to apply to both your star player and your number nine hitter. The moment players believe the best athlete gets treated differently simply because they are talented, trust starts to erode across the entire team.

    At the same time, fairness also requires leadership judgment. If a player fouls a ball off his foot and cannot run full speed safely, that situation deserves context. Consistency is not about robotic leadership. It is about applying standards honestly while still recognizing circumstances.

    The same principle applies in the workplace. Employees quickly recognize inconsistency. If leaders allow one employee to ignore deadlines, skip meetings, or avoid accountability while holding everyone else to a different standard, trust within the team begins to collapse. People may not always say it out loud, but they notice.

    In both sports and leadership, trust is built in small moments long before it is tested in big ones. Consistency earns credibility. Credibility earns trust. And trust is what ultimately gives leaders the ability to influence, develop, and lead others effectively

  • When the Game Gets Loud, the Best Get Quiet

    During any given game, it’s very likely that one of the few things you’ll hear me yell at a player is, “Take a breath and focus.” What I’m trying to remind them to do is simple—but not easy: block out all the outside noise—fan chatter, the opposing bench, runners on base—and lock in on the task at hand. Whether they’re in the batter’s box, on the mound, or in the field, I want players to focus on their specific job. Ignore everything else…until you can’t.

    In both youth and high school baseball and softball in my area, opposing dugouts can be very “chirpy.” Teams try to rattle each other by being loud—and sometimes, if we’re being honest, crossing the line. If you walk a batter, make an error, or strike out, you’re going to hear about it. That’s part of the environment. It’s not always right, but it is reality. And the players who learn to handle it best are the ones who gain a real competitive edge.

    The key isn’t pretending the noise doesn’t exist. The key is choosing not to engage with it.

    Great players develop the ability to narrow their focus. A hitter steps into the box and doesn’t think about the last at-bat, the score, or what the other team is yelling. They focus on one thing: the next pitch. A pitcher who just walked a batter doesn’t spiral. They take a breath, reset, and execute the next pitch. An infielder who just made an error doesn’t carry it into the next play—they get ready for the next ball hit their way.

    That’s what “ignore the noise until you can’t” really means. You control what you can control for as long as you can. But there are moments in a game where you do have to acknowledge reality—the runner stealing, the bunt situation, the game speeding up. At that point, awareness matters. But even then, it’s focused awareness, not emotional reaction.

    This lesson goes far beyond the field.

    In leadership, the “noise” just looks different. It might be office politics, outside opinions, second-guessing, or pressure from multiple directions. Leaders are constantly surrounded by distractions that can pull them away from what actually matters. The best leaders, like the best players, learn to filter it out. They stay grounded in their role, their priorities, and the decision in front of them.

    They don’t ignore everything forever—but they ignore it long enough to stay effective. Because performance—whether on the field or in the workplace—comes down to focus. The ability to slow things down, take a breath, and lock in on what matters most in that moment.

    So the next time things start to speed up, or the noise gets loud, remember the simplest coaching cue there is:

    Take a breath. Focus. And ignore the noise—until you can’t.

  • If You’re Leading the Same Way Every Time, You’re Doing It Wrong

    One of the best parts about both watching and coaching sports—at any level—is that there is no script. While patterns may repeat, no two games are ever exactly the same. The same is true in leadership. Situations may feel familiar, but the details are always changing.

    The best players and coaches understand this. They don’t rely on a fixed plan—they rely on awareness and adaptability. They recognize the situation in front of them, draw on past experience, and adjust in real time.

    In baseball and softball, one of the concepts I emphasize with more experienced hitters is “count leverage.” A hitter’s approach should change depending on the count. In a 2-0 count, the advantage clearly belongs to the hitter. That means being selective—looking for a pitch in a specific zone and refusing to chase anything less. On the other hand, in an 0-2 count, the situation shifts. Now the hitter must expand the zone, protect the plate, and battle to stay alive.

    Same hitter. Same at-bat. Completely different approach.

    That’s awareness. That’s adaptability.

    And it doesn’t stop with the count. Base running decisions, defensive positioning, and situational hitting all require players to read the moment. Should you challenge an outfielder with a strong arm, or play it safe and trust the next hitter? Should you take an extra base, or avoid making the third out? These decisions are rarely black and white. They require awareness of the situation and the discipline to adjust accordingly.

    The same principle applies in leadership.

    There is no scoreboard in the workplace showing balls, strikes, and outs. There’s no obvious indicator telling you exactly how to respond to a situation. Instead, leaders must pay closer attention. They must observe patterns, ask questions, and understand context.

    When an employee’s performance starts to slip, awareness matters. Do you immediately apply the same approach you used with someone else in a similar situation, or do you pause to understand what’s really going on? Are there external factors at play? Has something changed in their role, their workload, or their motivation?

    Adaptability matters just as much.

    Consider attendance. Do you respond the same way to an employee who is late for the first time as you would to someone with a consistent pattern? Effective leaders know that treating every situation the same isn’t fair—it’s ineffective. Consistency in values is important, but flexibility in approach is what drives results.

    Great leaders, like great players, don’t operate on autopilot. They stay present. They assess the situation. And they adjust.

    Because success—on the field or in the workplace—is rarely about doing the same thing over and over. It’s about knowing when to change.